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Hot in the City

This is about the life of Miss Mo, a 30-something gal who recently moved back to Singapore from the US.

 

Miss Mo goes Jazzy

Last Friday, Miss Mo and Christian went to a Christmas Jazz concert, Noel Asiana. Christian has mentioned that he wanted to go to a concert at the Esplanade and this Jazz concert seemed pretty mainstream for someone who hasn't been to arty-farty.

It's a Jazz band led by Jeremy Monteiro with Asian players, hence the name. The self-composed tunes they played were great. In the second half of the concert, they focussed more on Christmas tunes with 2 guest singers, one of whom used to be in NJ choir! One could really feel the xmas atmosphere in the concert hall. We really enjoyed ourselves.

That was my best Christmas gift this year

 
 

Christian is back!

Two Sundays ago, Miss Mo went out with Christian Slater. Remember him? He was this guy whom I met a couple of months ago and I said he's kind of normal.

He has been in China and through my request, he actually bought some DVDs for me. I was so happy that I finally got to watch The Sopranos. Love it!

Anyway, back to Christian, we met for dinner after his church on Sunday evening. It was great to see him again. It was kind of awkward at first but after a while, we warmed up. It wasn't romantic or what but dinner at Crystal Jade was great but quick (coz it's Crystal Jade). I thought it would be adios but he suggested going to Prinsep Street for soya beancurd. I was like 'har...we'd have to drive there leh and it was freakin raining...'. He really wanted to have it and it's been probably 15 years since I was there so WTF, we went in his car. It was a Volvo. At first, I was like 'err..Volvo..Then he said it was his mom's. LOL!

Christian was very gentlemanly - served me first, opened the car door. I was impressed but didn't put much thought into it. I just assumed his mother taught him well. But then he was kind of touchy-feely. It's kind of unusual since it was the second time we've met. It's a nice feeling but I'm confused because the feeling was more friends than daters. I doubt his mom taught him that.

But the soya beancurd was delicious and cheap. We had a good time chatting too. After that, he sent me back to my car at Suntec and I went to another date at Clark Quay. LOL!

 
 

Dinner with the Bostonians


Last Monday, we had dinner with the people from New England suburbs, who were back to visit family. I can't say they are from Boston since they hardly go to Boston. LOL! Thanks for YDD, we went to the NUS Guildhouse at Suntec City for dinner.

I doubt anyone would go to this place for dinner because it is such an obscure place. I had to go to Carrefour, which is 5 miles from the Suntec main entrance. Then I had to take the lift to the 5th floor up to the Bistro. However, I can only take the lift from the first or 3rd floor because there isn't a lift on the second floor. Of course, I was on the 2nd floor. LOL! It's as if the NUS alumni doesn't want the world to know of its existence so it's hidden at a corner of the building. But thanks to it, I finally know where the Suntec cinemas are now.

It's not as if the restaurant is so posh but the guys need to be in a collared shirt. The food was so-so, the portions too small. The service was mediocre too. Lots of uncool NUS people, feeling great dining in a 'posh' place. Kekeke!

We then proceeded to have drinks and YDD suggested to have drinks in the Bar. We obliged since the prices were cheap. But the atmosphere was great NOT. It was as if we were transported back to the 1970s. There was a solo singer singing evergreens, playing the guitar. There was a group of middle-aged men toasting. The menu given was the same as the restaurant. LOL! But the prices of the drinks were dirt cheap. I guess that's the price to pay for being in a not very cool place. Kekeke!

But it was great catching up with the US-related people. Techno-coolie even broke the news that he's engaged and he proposed at The Cliff. Oo-lala!

 
 

High School Reunion

You thought I have disappeared, right? Well, I have been kind of lazy, not really busy. I have been just in a period of daze. But now, I'm back with more stories to entertain you guys.

Two Saturdays ago, Miss Mo had a mini secondary school reunion. It was a bbq held at new-born Kiefer's mom's condo. It's a nice condo, formerly the Equatorial hotel.

A few of us showed up. Duanfang (still very fierce), Ruiqing (can't believe she's a mom now), Diana (still boyish), PQ (I'm still not used to her long straight hair), Jasmine and her husband Alvarone and a stray one from another class, Superstar, and of course, Kiefer's mom. The missing one was XG, who was too busy at school on a Saturday night!

We had fun remininscing the old school days. Nobody really changed much. It was kind of fun because we were talking as if we were still in school. It's been nearly 20 years since we were in school together. How time flies!

 
 

U-turn in Singapore

I encounter such experiences. The U-turn incident happened to me before!

BAD SERVICE CAN DRIVE YOU NUTS
Some days, it's apathetic service at every turn

The other morning, I tried to get something sent overseas at a convenience shop. An international courier company had signed on the shop as one of their drop-off points.
What an innovative idea - or so I thought, until I went to the counter. "Cannot," the shop assistant said. "We don't do such things." "But your shop is on the courier company's website," I protested. "No, don't have. Never heard before." When I insisted, she gave a theatrical sigh, then said she'd phone her supervisor when she had finished serving all her "legitimate" customers (who wanted nothing more mentally taxing than a can of soft drink or a packet of crisps).

After giving me a few hard stares to will me to leave, she finally called
her supervisor, reluctance written all over her. Thirty seconds later, she
turned to me and then said: "Ya, got such thing. Give me your parcel."

I wish I could say that this was an isolated incident but I've encountered
many sales people just like her. Their motto: If in doubt, just say no. Is it possible to get free alteration? No. Can I have mashed potato instead of fries? No. It's as if they've been programmed with a set script - greet customer, give product, get money. Heaven forbid if there's a deviation because their brains just shut down.

Now I understand what Creative boss Sim Wong Hoo meant when he said in his book, Chaotic Thoughts from the Old Millennium, that Singaporeans are Nuts. He coined the phrase, No U-Turn Syndrome, to describe how we need someone in authority to tell us what to do before we can proceed. To describe this, he compared local traffic rules to those found overseas. Here, drivers can't U-turn unless a sign allows them to do so, while in other countries, drivers can U-turn unless a sign forbids them to. "When there is no rule, we cannot do anything. We become paralysed," he noted.

You see this problem most with service staff here, mainly because they're lowest in the pecking order in any shop or restaurant. They don't dare to deviate from the rule book because they know it might incur the wrath of someone higher up in the organisation.
And in most hierarchical Singapore companies, that's not an exception, it's a given.
If there are no rules specifically allowing them to do something (for example, offer rice instead of baked potato), they will err on the side of caution and say no. This apathy may serve them well but it sure doesn't serve me, as a customer, at all. While I may sympathise with them, that doesn't stop me from feeling irritated just the same.

Given the Nuts around, it will be impossible to ask them to change by themselves. If we want better service all round, sales managers should be trained to give their underlings more control. A good example of this was in a restaurant I recently visited. Because they were having an a la carte buffet promotion, the place was packed and the two waitresses there had their hands full trying to get the orders right. Inevitably, orders went missing and tempers were frayed. What I expected to be a quiet half-hour meal turned into a long-drawn two-hour affair. At the end of the meal, I told a waitress that it was the worst dining experience I'd ever had. I was prepared never to step foot in the place again. But she totally disarmed me by apologising and, without applying to her manager, gave me a $10 voucher. "Please come again. I promise we'll do better," she encouraged. I was impressed. By trusting her with the vouchers, her bosses had allowed her to use her initiative, wow customers with good service - and drum up more business.

There's no prizes for guessing which place I'd be going to again. I'm never going into that (in)convenience store again, not even for a pack of crisps. The shopaholic writer has no qualms dealing with shop assistants, as long as the first word that comes out of their mouth is not "no".

 
 

WTF?!?

I read this article on the TODAY newspaper this morning. WTF??!

CAN NY PASS THOSAI TEST?

The city's foreign cuisine is great but then ... A city's surroundings
help make it a great place to live


IT HAS become fashionable to refer to some cities in the West, particularly New York and London, as "cities of the world". It is time not only to question these claims but to challenge the whole fascination with the idea of being a "city of the world". Goh Kok Huat's well-written article, "Can Singapore handle New York's buzz?" (Dec 14), provides such an opportunity.

New York is no more a city of the world than Singapore is just because its taxi drivers are migrants from all over. That just shows taxi-driving is an available entry-level occupation for migrants. New York would be more a city of the world if a sizeable portion of its cab fleet were made up of vehicles of European and Asian makes, instead of reflecting a "Buy
American" ethic.

New York does not qualify as a city of the world just because one's colleagues there might comprise Argentinians, Germans and Indians. It would be more so if they and their children retain the characteristics and culture that make them distinctly Argentinian, German and Indian.

New York would be a city of the world if it becomes a given that third-generation Chinese immigrants can speak Mandarin with confidence and proficiency. Yet we know that to integrate, in what has been grandiosely called a great melting pot, is to become culturally Anglo-Saxon American.

Of course, New York offers a great range of foreign cuisine at low and high-end eateries. The former caters to poor first-generation migrants, while the latter is for the well-heeled seeking nostalgia or the exotic. New York would be a city of the world if a white Anglo-Saxon American living there were as likely to wake up to a breakfast of masala thosai or
nasi lemak.

And to suggest that New York's economic growth benefited by learning from Chinese, Vietnamese or Hispanic migrants is really stretching things.

The point is that mere physical juxtaposition of diversity should not be mistaken for open-mindedness, cross-cultural understanding or a catalyst for economy or innovation.

New York would be more a city of the world if a former mayor who had snubbed a visiting Chinese leader to pander to anti-China sentiments weren't so popular.

To begin with, why the need for "cities of the world" when the world is becoming "smaller"? It would be a loss, not gain, to diversity were New York or London to become cities of the world. It would not be a slight in the least to call them American and English respectively.

What we all need is a deeper understanding of points of view that don't come from our part of the world without forgetting our origins.

Thus, to Mr Goh's question - "Do we find it threatening if the ang moh culture becomes a mainstream one on our shores?" - the answer is that it already has been for some time. Practically all of us have, consciously or otherwise, incorporated some aspects of ang moh culture in our identity. It only becomes a threat - and culture only becomes a zero-sum game - if we start seeing it as a necessary good to distance ourselves from the
ethnic dimension of our identity.


THE writer has made many comparisons between Singapore and New York, but he has omitted one important detail that distinguishes the two cities.

New York is a city where the denizens can escape to tranquillity to the vast American hinterland easily. In contrast, Singapore is an island state, so cramped that impromptu music performances are not allowed at parks. Whenever anyone feels stressed in New York, forests, mountains, lakes and even Niagara Falls are just a short distance away, not to mention the quaint little towns of New England.

All the nature reserves of Singapore are quite limited, and one gets the feeling of living in a glasshouse even deep within MacRitchie Reservoir Park.

 
 

ZoukOut!

Last Saturday, Miss Mo and the Astorians ventured to Sentosa for the biggest event of the year - ZoukOut 2006!

Traffic into Sentosa wasn't as bad as we'd expected. We ignored the sign that parking was full at the beach and managed to find one in the garage. There were already drunk people around and they offered their vodka, when it was obviously whisky or rum.

Being new to Sentosa, we couldn't really find our way to the beaches. When we thought we were walking in the right direction, we saw people walking in the opposite direction. We thought hmm...maybe we should follow them. We were such losers!


ZoukOut was located at the Siloso Beach. There were a few stages with different kind of music playing at each stage. There were also many stalls, some selling food and drinks, VIP lounges, sponsor tents, etc. It was a carnival only at night.

The people there were pretty interesting. We didn't know such people exist in Singapore. Of course, there were the gays but they were exceptionally horny that night. Then there were the crazy dancers who were holding some luminous thing in their hands and doing funky dance moves. Of course, there were the girls decked out in bikini tops, most of them with tiny boobs. Occasionally, we see one with big boobs but they were fat lah. Kekeke!



We came upon this sponsor tent called Sensoria and we thought it was for VIPs only. We saw the blue-coloured martinis and were dying to get it. Then from my zoukout source, we realized that we could just walk in and we did. However, to get those free martinis, we need to get the coupons. We went around asking for coupons. At the drinks counted, we spotted this girl holding a big stack of coupons so we asked for 3 more. Kekeke! Apparently, my source didn't know there were free drinks available. Arthur even had free ben and jerry's ice-cream! We even had our picture taken with the Sensoria girls!

The drinks sold on the premises were pretty cheap. Just $6 for a beer or cocktail. Dirt cheap! The food prices were reasonable too. Of course, the music was fantastic. The band stage had Electrico, a local band that played pretty decent music. We also stayed at the hip hop/mambo stage. Jazzy Jeff was rapping there, lotsa atmosphere. Then we also went to the main stage. There were big podiums where people could stand and dance on them. We saw this gross and fat Indian guy, who was shirtless with a big tummy and he was trying to dance with 2 chicks. Gross! Then when we were in line buying drinks, we witness this horny old gay trying to hook up with a young gay boy; both were shirtless. Funny! Lots of people watching.

My source and his friends stayed at the nearby new hotel Siloso Beach Resort because they were going to stay till the end, 8am. We left around 5am, too tired but it was certainly fun.

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Cross Pose

Last Saturday, Miss Mo attended her cousin's son's wedding. Not that Miss Mo is that matured, the son was 30 years old.

You'd think that after all these years, the wedding dinner scene would have improved but no, it's still the same 'template'.

After settling down, the lights were dimmed and they played the Shania Twain lovey-dovey song 'From this moment on' to welcome the bride and groom. Goose Pimples! They then played a slide show of the couple when they were young, when they were together, when they first kissed and then their studio pictures. Walau! The couple proceeded on stage to cut the fake 4-tier cake. Then when everyone was seated, this Kitaro-like tune came on and the waiters came out with lit first dish. Too funny! I thought that was 10 years ago but it still happened.

During the middle of the dinner, the couple then went on stage to pour the champagne tower thingy, as they pose for more pictures. Each holding a glass, they did a 'cross-pose' where they cross each other's arm to drink the champagne from their glasses. LOL! Cross pose! Together with their families, they then toasted to the whole room - YUM SENG! Very funny. Next, the couple made some thank-you speeches and then went to each table to take pictures.

At the last dish, the couple and immediate families had to line up by the door to bid the guests good-bye. Too standard.

I was off to change into my beachwear for

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Logcakes in Singapore



I don't understand the obsession of log cakes in Singapore. Everywhere you go, hotels, cake shops offer log cakes for Christmas. Where is this tradition from? I don't geddit. Do you?

 
 

Miss Mo goes running


I ran a new route yesterday, after supporting the Marathon Geek at the Singapore Marathon. She came in at 3hours 58mins, which was awesome! Good for her!

This new route I took takes me up the hill along AMK Ave 4 and along ave 3 towards the central. Then I run passed the new 24hour MacDonald's near the park and then back to the usual route along the MRT track. It's more interesting than the older route I used to take and it's not as quiet.

 
 

Miss Mo goes Jazzy

Last Friday (seemed like a busy last week), Miss Mo went to check out the Jazz scene in Singapore. We went to this Jazz bar called Jazz @ South Bridge.

It's a cosy bar above Coffee Bean on at the end of Boat Quay. No frills. The band that was playing that night was from Montreal. I'd definitely check out that place again when the locals are playing.

 
 

Miss Mo went to Bora Bora

Last Thursday was Miss Mo's company function. Just like last year, we chose to have it on Sentosa island. This year, we held it at Bora Bora Beach Bar on the .

Not much to mention about the function but I would definitely check out the Palawan Beach again. There are other bars in the vicinity and a foodcourt too. The restroom and shower facilities are new and clean

 
 

Miss Mo checks out the Working Girls

Last Saturday, Miss Mo, ZamboniSam and the Astorians went to check out the band Shaggies (?) at this bar called Ipanema. It sounds like a normal activity. However, Ipanema is located at Orchard Towers, where all the working girls work for their living.

I parked at the building's carpark, which was kind of old and dodgy and was already giving me an introduction of what was to come. The bar looked normal from the outside but once we went in, it was a complete eye-opener. It was kind of huge inside and there were lots (I stressed LOTS) of working girls all skimpily-dressed, walking around, looking for fat old white men.

There were so many working girls that evening but I would like to highlight a few worth mentioning. First, there was Shakira. She had a good body. She wore a white bra and she kept pressing her boobs inwards to accentuate her cleavage, and a short and torn denim skirt. She was dancing seductively in front of the mirror the night, I guess to attract customers. She had to fight with another ho, who was wearing a black bra. We thought Black Bra was kind of pretty. Then there was this Green Girl who went around the tables soliciting business but with not much success. I tried to eavesdrop on one of her deals but couldn't hear much amidst the music. Then there was this China girl. Obviously, it was her first time because her dress was not skimpy enough and she was kind of shy to approach the tables. The bathroom was another scene. There were many girls putting on makeup. I didn't dare to sit on the toilet seat for fear of contracting some disease.

There were interesting customers too. We sat next to a group of native Indians, obviously there were computer programmers. The girls would approach them and there would be some negotiation. The guys would then try to kiss and touch the girls and not cut a deal. Cheapskate! Then we saw this huge old white man with a tiny short girl. After groping for a while, the couple left the bar. Gross!

I went onto the dancefloor to dance a little and this guy came up and asked whether I was alone. NO! I'm not a ho.

Oh, I forgot to mention the band. They were pretty good. They could play a variety of songs. I thought the bass guitarist was kind of cool. He's kind of fat and old with sunglasses. Someone mentioned he looks like Elton John. LOL!

Would definitely go back there again! I just won't sit on the toilet seat, that's all.

 
 

Miss Mo goes to Mount Emily


Last Saturday, Miss Mo went to check out this restaurant Wild Rocket with a couple of her girlfriends and cutey Isaiah.

Wild Rocket is situated at the Hangout Hotel on top of Mount Emily. It's really a nice little place. The restaurant looked quiet on the outside but it was kind of crowded especially on a late Saturday afternoon.


We all had the set lunch which was at $26+++. Cheap! I had the soft shell crab in chili paste. Delicious! Too yummy until I forgot to take pictures of it. My chums had the spicy catfish and I chose to have spaghetti with salmon. If you notice in my blog, I have a weakness for pasta! They were all pretty good.

For desserts, I had homemade coconut ice-cream in gula melaka and my chums had red bean ice-cream, which we all agreed were equally good. Little Isaiah had cheesecake, which he said was yummy too.

I'd definitely go back there for their famous pasta in pesto laksa sauce.

P/S - My camera ran out of juice so I had to use my friend's camera phone to take these pictures.